*: support order_index and no_order_index hint for planner

[xuyifangreeneyes]

Cherry pick #39965 #40089 #40321 #40945

Issue Number: close #39964

Problem Summary:

What is changed and how it works?

Support order_index and no_order_index hint for planner.

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• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

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• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

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[hawkingrei]

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