Updates to support Accelerate and multigpu training (#37)

Summary:
## Changes:
- Added Accelerate Library and refactored experiment.py to use it
- Needed to move `init_optimizer` and `ExperimentConfig` to a separate file to be compatible with submitit/hydra
- Needed to make some modifications to data loaders etc to work well with the accelerate ddp wrappers
- Loading/saving checkpoints incorporates an unwrapping step so remove the ddp wrapped model

## Tests

Tested with both `torchrun` and `submitit/hydra` on two gpus locally. Here are the commands:

**Torchrun**

Modules loaded:
```sh
1) anaconda3/2021.05   2) cuda/11.3   3) NCCL/2.9.8-3-cuda.11.3   4) gcc/5.2.0. (but unload gcc when using submit)
```

```sh
torchrun --nnodes=1 --nproc_per_node=2 experiment.py --config-path ./configs --config-name repro_singleseq_nerf_test
```

**Submitit/Hydra Local test**

```sh
~/pytorch3d/projects/implicitron_trainer$ HYDRA_FULL_ERROR=1 python3.9 experiment.py --config-name repro_singleseq_nerf_test --multirun --config-path ./configs  hydra/launcher=submitit_local hydra.launcher.gpus_per_node=2 hydra.launcher.tasks_per_node=2 hydra.launcher.nodes=1
```

**Submitit/Hydra distributed test**

```sh
~/implicitron/pytorch3d$ python3.9 experiment.py --config-name repro_singleseq_nerf_test --multirun --config-path ./configs  hydra/launcher=submitit_slurm hydra.launcher.gpus_per_node=8 hydra.launcher.tasks_per_node=8 hydra.launcher.nodes=1 hydra.launcher.partition=learnlab hydra.launcher.timeout_min=4320
```

## TODOS:
- Fix distributed evaluation: currently this doesn't work as the input format to the evaluation function is not suitable for gathering across gpus (needs to be nested list/tuple/dicts of objects that satisfy `is_torch_tensor`) and currently `frame_data`  contains `Cameras` type.
- Refactor the `accelerator` object to be accessible by all functions instead of needing to pass it around everywhere? Maybe have a `Trainer` class and add it as a method?
- Update readme with installation instructions for accelerate and also commands for running jobs with torchrun and submitit/hydra

X-link: fairinternal/pytorch3d#37

Reviewed By: davnov134, kjchalup

Differential Revision: D37543870

Pulled By: bottler

fbshipit-source-id: be9eb4e91244d4fe3740d87dafec622ae1e0cf76