deps: change tar-rs to upstream version

[adamqqqplay]

Relevant Issue (if applicable)

#1387 #1391

Details

Since upstream tar-rs merged our fix for reading large uids/gids from
the PAX extension, so change tar-rs back to the upstream version.

Update tar-rs dependency xattr to 1.0.1 as well.

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• Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
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• I have updated the documentation accordingly.
• I have added tests to cover my changes.

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[codecov]

Codecov Report

Merging #1396 (96e9f86) into master (34ee825) will decrease coverage by 0.01%.
The diff coverage is n/a.

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##           master    #1396      +/-   ##
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- Coverage   46.31%   46.30%   -0.01%     
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  Files         122      122              
  Lines       38077    38077              
  Branches    38077    38077              
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- Hits        17635    17633       -2     
- Misses      19516    19519       +3     
+ Partials      926      925       -1     

see 2 files with indirect coverage changes

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